Help needed from everyone please

[heybulldog]

For the past 3 weeks I cannot play a game of Pes2010 online.
Each person I connect with has a red dot and the game just terminates after a few minutes in, I have 8mb download speed 0.64 upload and 20 ping.. What is going on with this game.
My Nat is open and I connect with a cable and there is nobody else using my bandwidth.
Can anyone that has a similar problem like mine please post in here so i can get an idea on what is going on with this game before i start ringing my broadband provider to fcuk them out of it. thanks