I've finally found the correct combination of settings etc that is making the game a joy now. I will admit to trying everything, was going for the PS3 first but wanted the graphical element and customisation, now I'm with the PC which at first I didn't prefer. I've tried everything peeps so can understand everyone's frustration at seeing the glaring errors in the game, I've gone from changing platforms, changing settings, changing gamespeeds, changing cameras, OF's, DLCs, patch this patch that, gamemode this gamemode that, 3 different tele's lol, you could say my quest to GET THIS FKIN GAME TO WORK has been bordering on obsession.....the list has been endless.
BUT here is my setup and I'll explain why...
37" LCD tv, PC platform (to get full customisation including stunning graphics, stadia, textures, and logos like the Sky Sport one), DLC content and patch 1.01. PESEDIT added for kits and players etc, Jenkey's patch to disable replays, ball weight to the max, shot power harder one notch, more curve and net physic. Don't use his gameplay change or cheat fix thing (find they in fact make the CPU cheat more), gamespeed changed to 85. Also changed the default 16:9 to 4:3.
Now for the game; Superstar level, 15 minute games, no assistance.
FINALLY, I can safely say that this now resembles the game I want. Possession is fairly equal, mostly 55-45 in my favour but that's pretty damn close to what I want. The CPU in superstar like most people know is fairer. I get stunning graphics and everything screams proper tv game in relation to how it looks. Gamespeed is exactly how I want it, not too slow but just right. And the assistance off means you still have to focus on every pass.
Right now this game now plays awesome. The switch from default 16:9 to 4:3 has also been a revelation.
BUT - let me just say that this is not acceptable, I have been borderline obsessive with this quest, but why doesn't the game just fkin work out of the box like 99% of people want it to? Why does it take a month of potching round with virtually every setting combination to get the friggin thing to resemble simulation as opposed to ping pong arcade?
If it wasn't for my love of the PES games of old I would have given up on it ages ago. But I believe through my perseverance and no thanks to KONAMI I know have something that I want to play.